Counseling for Infidelity and Affair Recovery

You have no idea how or why this happened but the pain you feel is unbearable.. One minute your anger is exploding, you’re ripping pictures off the wall and wondering if anything they ever even said about loving you was true - how could someone do something like this to the person they claim to love?? 

The next minute you’re sobbing uncontrollably into your pillow and wondering if the pain will ever end. 

You question yourself and wonder what you could have done to deserve this - you scrutinize your looks, your weight, everything about your physical appearance. Sometimes it’s easier to blame yourself than your partner. 

You thought you knew them and you never thought that in a million years they would betray you like this. 

The betrayal hurts so bad because you know you love your partner more than anything in the world. You find yourself wanting to be close to them, wanting desperately to be reassured that they still love you and want to work through this. 

Your mind gets caught up in the details. Where did it happen? How many times did you text or meet up? You try desperately to make sense of the timeline. You scrutinize every response your partner gives you, listening to the way their voice sounds, and hoping that you’ll be able to tell if they are lying or not. 

You desperately want the truth. 

Healing from Infidelity In Your Relationship

Your partner has tried to tell you everything, they let you see the messages, share their location, call you, reassure you, but it never feels like enough. Your partner wonders when you will ever trust them again. They want to move on, but you feel stuck.

Finding out your partner cheated has made you question everything about the past and whether they were even trying to fix things with you. 

Couples Therapists for Infidelity

We help couples  who are exhausted from trying to heal their relationships after infidelity to create a path towards connection and healing through couples counseling. Our team of expert therapists are trained to work with infidelity so that you don’t find the therapy room just another place where you fight and have a referee. 

In our couples counseling sessions, you will have the opportunity to speak honestly and openly about what’s happened, and receive the guidance you truly need to start rebuilding trust.  Our couples feel so supported knowing that they are able to have the really hard conversations with someone won’t take sides but will keep your communication on track. 

Not only do we help you understand why the betrayals happen in the relationship, we help you open your hearts so you and your partner can make necessary changes to understand yourselves and one another in a completely new way. 

Couples Therapy, Brainspotting and Ketamine Assisted Therapy for Couples

We take a team approach to healing infidelity. You will have a primary therapist that you meet with weekly for consistent support. When one or both of you get stuck, we push pause on couples therapy and another therapist on our team will do brain-based treatment like Brainspotting or Ketamine Assisted Therapy to help you clear the triggers that have kept you stuck for too long. 

With infidelity counseling you can finally stop walking on eggshells and know exactly where you and your partner stand. Not only that, you’ll get back to wanting to spend time together and you will have a clear plan as to how you will both work to restore trust in the relationship and the support you each need to stick to that plan. 

Start Healing Infidelity with Couples Counseling

If you’re ready to rebuild trust and truly recommit and connect with your partner again click the link below and schedule your free 15-minute phone consultation or call us directly at (909) 600-0306. We’ll answer all of your questions, explain the process, and get you started with a couples expert that will help you on the road to building a new marriage that works for both of you - one that’s full of honesty, respect, love, and deep connection and commitment.