When it seems like everything turns into an argument
A couples expert can help
You have no idea how you got here…
They’re packing their bags to leave the house after another blow-out fight.
You’ve thought about calling a divorce lawyer but the idea just scares you to death, and you can’t even fathom splitting custody of your kids.
You know your kids are already suffering - they feel the tension, they hear you bickering, and you’re so short with them because you’re always walking on eggshells trying to avoid the next fight with your partner.
This is not the life you pictured.
You’ve been through these same cycles so many times before, and when things are good, they’re really good, but now the good times are fading quickly and you’re either not talking or walking on eggshells to avoid the next fight.
You don’t talk like you used to, there’s no intimacy, you feel like roommates and your heart is broken because you feel so damn lonely and don’t know how to get your partner to understand you - if only you knew how to communicate better!
A Couples Therapist in Rancho Cucamonga, Temecula, or Online in California can help!
Our couples experts completely understand just how tired and hurt you are.
We’ve dedicated our careers to continuous learning and training in the field of couples therapy and we help couples daily who are exhausted from the constant fighting.
You won’t just show up and have the same fights over and over in our offices.
Our couples experts will provide you with a plan, ground rules, and a safe space to have the hard conversations that you just haven't been able to have on your own.
A highly trained Brainspotting Therapist can be what you need to make a huge shift in your relationship
When one or both of you get stuck, we push pause on couples therapy and another therapist on our team will do brain-based treatment like Brainspotting or Ketamine Assisted Therapy (KAP), to help you clear the triggers that have kept you stuck for too long.
Our clients come in weekly so they have consistent support throughout their process and so they can get everything out on the table.
We help you to open your hearts again and you’ll feel the deep changes in your bodies and nervous systems which leads to lasting change and tools that you’ll have in your toolbox for years and years to come.
With weekly couples counseling you can finally stop walking on eggshells and know exactly where you and your partner stand.
Not only that, you’ll get back to wanting to spend time together and your children will feel a sense of calm and ease when they see that the animosity has been lifted.
You’ll finally feel like your partner is in your corner again, and you’ll be able to enjoy life without fear of a fight popping up out of nowhere because you’ll be equipped with the tools to have open communication about anything that comes up.
If you’re ready to stop the fighting and constant pain of wondering how much longer you can be in this relationship, click the link below and schedule your free 15-minute phone consultation or call us directly at (909) 600-0306. We’ll answer all of your questions, explain the process, and get you started with a couples expert that will help you gain the tools you need to have the deep connection you’ve always wanted with your partner.
IMAGINE A RELATIONSHIP FREE OF CONSTANT ARGUMENTS, FREE OF ANIMOSITY TOWARDS ONE ANOTHER, WHERE EACH OF YOU FEELS HEARD AND UNDERSTOOD.
CLICK BELOW OR CALL (909) 600-0306 TO SCHEDULE YOUR FREE 15-MINUTE PHONE CONSULTATION
What to Expect
ONCE YOU’VE COMPLETED YOUR CONSULTATION, AND SCHEDULED YOUR FIRST COUPLES THERAPY APPOINTMENT, HERE IS WHAT HAPPENS NEXT:
COUPLES SESSION #1
Your first session, you and your partner will meet with your couples therapist in our Rancho Cucamonga office, Temecula office, or Online from anywhere in CA together. This first session is focused on information and history taking. The therapist will ask you questions about the issues that have brought you to therapy, what you’d like to see change, and also many questions about the history of your relationship. These questions will help your therapist get a picture of your strengths and some of your history together as a couple. It is very important for the therapist to understand your goals for therapy and what you want your relationship to look like so we can keep checking in and guiding you in the right direction.
INDIVIDUAL SESSIONS
Next, your couples therapist will meet with each of you individually in your own separate sessions in our Rancho Cucamonga or Temecula office or online from anywhere you are in CA. These individual sessions will help the therapist to hear from each of you about what you see as some of the issues in the relationship. The therapist will also ask about your personal history to get a grasp on how that relates to the way you interact with your partner.
These sessions are confidential, and the therapist will not share things disclosed in these individual sessions with your partner.
RELATIONSHIP CHECKUP
After you each meet with your therapist individually, you’ll come back for another couples session. You’ll meet with your couples therapist in the office in Rancho Cucamonga or Temecula, or Online from anywhere in CA.
Before this session your therapist will send you a Relationship Checkup - an extensive background questionnaire designed to help the therapist get a really good picture of where the breakdowns in communication are happening.
In this second couples session your couples therapist will do most of the talking and from all of the information they have gathered from the previous sessions and the Relationship Checkup, will outline the work ahead. Your therapist will help you understand the focus of the upcoming sessions and answer any questions you might have. Our therapists are very solution-focused, and our goal is not to keep you in therapy forever, but instead give you the tools you need to transform your relationship, and send you on your way to enjoy your partner and the new relationship you’ve both worked to create.
If you want everything laid out on the table and want to have a good picture of what you’ll be working on as you move forward and this sounds like what you’ve been looking for, click the button below and request a free 15-minute phone consultation or call us directly at (909) 600-0306 to get started.